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3 Really Smart Techniques for You to Do Before Summer to Help You Jump Into the Beauty of Your Goals

Mother’s Day is upon us this month and it’s no coincidence that the celebration of the feminine is seeded in spring; the most fertile time of the year.

It’s so exciting to know that you have access to information that comes from a very powerful someplace other than the mind; that you chose to be here this lifetime to experience the path of stepping into the divine Happy Mother's Day (graphic)feminine energy of love, compassion and nurturing; especially for yourself.

In the last Masters Retreat, we were creating a deeper relationship with the elements of the feminine energy so we could connect with the call of spirit more fully in this time of Mother Earth blossoming all her beauty. Imagine being so connected to the earth that you could replicate her creation of the abundance of beauty in your life.

No matter where you are in your awareness, if everything is the call of spirit to guide you on the rainbow bridge to experience your dreams, how do you hold the divine feminine energy more fully to create quantum leaps on a consistent basis?

I’ve been getting lots of questions from both students and companies about how to overcome their situation from their “interpretation” of it. So in today’s article, I will cover the 3 techniques you can use this month to get a jump into the beauty that you want to create this summer.

Inspiring Your Success,



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3 Really Smart Techniques for You to Do Before Summer to Help You Jump Into the Beauty of Your Goals

By Dani Burling

Everything is coming to life after being dormant. The metaphor to consider here is where has there been dormancy in your life that is creating stress now, because those are your lessons and can be very challenging. There is fear, worry, body aches, uncertainty of the future and a mirage of emotions that are signaling you to grow!Pink Flower of Spring

On the other hand, there is certainty within this darkness (like winter), but you too can blossom into new awarenesses, insight and growth. The problem is, most people run from this valuable opportunity.

Lady not thinking outside the boxDo you want to know why they run? Because they don’t recognize that the directions to life are on the OUTSIDE OF THE BOX they have currently placed yourself in.

So what skills can you use now? Here’s my suggestions for you to grow and strengthen your ability to solidly create roots that develop the mastery of abundance inspired by the feminine energy.

Start using these 3 strategies this week and you’ll be happily surprised by how your situations will change for the better as you nurture and grow your seeds of beauty.


 1.      Always find a different perspective than the one that is triggering you

When a moment presents itself to you, it is your opportunity to sit in the stillness. What does this mean? Well, don’t instantly react first of all. In the stillness you can begin to see into the other dimensions around the situation you are confronted with. There is so much that your eyes and your mind cannot see with regard to each situation. Here are a few questions to ask yourself:

  • Why am I reacting? (Answer: “Because I feel                                  “)

This clue helps you start to see the emotions that are showing up for you; the darkness that wants to bloom the beauty by finding the gift.

  • Why are they reacting? (if someone else is involved) (Answer: “I made them feel                 ?)

If someone else is reacting, what button have you pushed in them. This will give you the answer you need to understand how you put them in story or they mirrored your energy. Then you can do your work physically, emotionally, energetically and mythically to grow something better.              

  • What is my relationship with                                     ? (money, my body, etc)

This insight is very important for you because your lessons can be shown to you in many forms. The weeds can appear or the beauty can grow. So if you are having money issues, perhaps journal what your feelings are about money (ex. “There is never enough”) and then relate them back to your situation. In most cases, your journaling about your relationship will show you exactly how you created your financial woes and how it is appearing as a mirror in other areas of your life that you didn’t even recognize before.

There are so many clues available for you to discover the truth of any situation. Implementing just this technique can stop a lot of drama for you. And, always remembering that “IT IS NEVER ABOUT THE SITUATION” will help.

 2.     Be in tune with the ripple that you are creating

So often we create a ripple of adverse energy out into the world and affect others and our goals. It can create job loss, relationship conflict at work and at home, health issues and an influence over others that is unhealthy and controlling. You want to be able to learn how to notice the ripple. Were you sending out the energy of love and acceptance, or judgment and blame. Love and acceptance will create blossoming of beauty; judgment and blame will create weeds and cause other areas of your life to be infested as well.

There are only 2 emotions: love and fear. This is such a simple understanding yet at times impossible to get a handle on. I suggest that you ask yourself the question below.  This will help you recognize the unfertile tilling you have been unconsciously undertaking.

So let’s work with an example, say someone is neglecting you. Ask these questions (and it should work for any situation):

  • Turn your thoughts about this person back to you and ask “How am I neglecting myself?”

That ripple of neglecting yourself has been sent out to the world to reflect it back for you to see! Not only can people neglect you, but jobs can, money can and your body can. So in order to correct the outside world, you will need to correct your inside world first.

3.     Recognize the ripple others are creating around you

On a side note, the person neglecting you is also creating a ripple of their own. Perhaps it is hiding, neglect of themselves, abusing their power….There could be so many possibilities, but working on you is the most important piece here.

If you are experiencing any type of ripple and you are being affected by it, there is definitely something for you to look at. The problem is most people look at the “neglect”, “lack of money” and so forth which will not get you out of the situation you are currently in. Remember it is never about the situation so my best advice would be to recognize if you are reacting to their ripple (and are others being affected). If others are being talked about or manipulated and you notice it, that is a ripple. It is easy to consciously or unconsciously manipulate or make others believe something. That is why there is so much judgment in the world today. If you are being affected, then you have gone into “story” (a remembrance of a past experience that you are still living in unconsciously). This story is literally haunting you and showing it to you in your life so you can grow your seeds of beauty instead. When you heal this lesson, “they” will either change or a new door of opportunities will present themselves in your life. Either way, you are exactly what is being reflected in your world so you are the only one who can change the situations around you.


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3 Responses to “3 Really Smart Techniques for You to Do Before Summer to Help You Jump Into the Beauty of Your Goals”

  1. Dani, you are truly a wisdom teacher and gift to us. I am always going to read your blog as it is loaded with insight. Many thanks

  2. Myla says:

    I love the wisdom you share, Dani. Always insightful and something to look at around a corner not seen before. I particularly love the 2nd one here. How am I neglecting myself? Love it. Thank you. I am looking with new eyes.


  3. Jane says:

    Dani thank you for this powerful blog and insights.
    It is inspiring and I am grateful to have this wisdom shared by you.
    When is your book coming out?!

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